How has your life changed since starting college?

I lacked friends in 12th class,I didn’t understand a single thing those teachers were teaching and used youtube and educational subscriptions for learning.

The fact that groups break up after the first year is correct.

From watching news at breakfast- to sharing news on calls

How can I be okay with being ugly? What is the bright side?

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It will be a year since I started college, so I thought I should share my experience with you.

What is the belief about the existence of past lives and memories? Do we have knowledge of our past lives at birth or does it come back to us gradually?

In college, I met many people who were faking behaviors in order to look cool, and they still do. This 'pick me' behavior irritates me the most.

I’ve realized the real value of money.

Going away from that place was my only wish at that time.I had no exposure to the outside world and I knew if I continued my further studies there, I would gain nothing.

Why does my narcissistic ex told me that he f*cked and sleep with other woman and then at the end says that it also happened because of me?

Now, I am living 300km away from my family.I miss them.

Many people used to believe that I would not be able to do so, but I did.

Thanks for reading my answer.

What are some disadvantages of living in rural areas? What are the advantages?

Let’s come to the answer.

There are many students who can’t go home frequently because of issues like long distance, travelling issues etc..I can feel their pain.

For example, many of my collegemates didn’t know what UGC was. The girl who was my senior and was sitting beside me didn’t know that Guide is written by R.K. Narayan. She was going to tick Chetan Bhagat as the answer before I stopped her.

Why do I feel so tired all the time even after a good night’s sleep?

All I meant to say is that if you are fully skilled, know everything, and still have no confidence, You will be considered nothing, but if you have confidence, people will see it as a plus, and this will provide a better opportunity for the future.

In 12th, I struggled to focus on my studies.I didn’t want to take the science stream but had to and wasn’t doing well. As if it wasn’t enough my father transferred to some other city and I was not happy with it.

I’ve become more responsible.

Why does he text me first but when I never text first he gets mad?

I found amazing mentors in my professors.

I felt frustrated, occasionally venting at my family and used to have panic attacks.

From fighting with sister on small things to fighting on calls/texting.

What’s the weirdest phone call you have ever received?

I have never stayed away from home before this but now I live in a pg with the worst management, manage my own chores, and travel alone.

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I met a lot of fake people and learned how to deal with them.

Why do people say "tall, dark, and handsome" when they actually mean "tall, white, and handsome"?

I still have doubts about myself, have a lot to work on my personality and need to work hard. I will keep trying to see positivity around me and I wish you would do the same.

-Hitesha.

Confidence is the key.

What makes females believe or think abortions are part of a woman’s rights?

I witnessed people with no understanding becoming successful simply because they were confident enough to stand on stage and perform.They arrived, performed, and it was finished. Their performance was not that good; it could have been better, yet people applauded as if it were the best.

In PG, I met 5 other girls from my classroom, and from the start, I kept my expectations low and was sure that I did not fit in with them, so I kept my distance, and my only connection in college was my roommate at that time.She advised me multiple times to hang out with that group. I made it clear to her that it was not right for my well-being to spend time with people with whom I feel uncomfortable.

Backstory-

What is the most overrated pleasure? Why?

I have huge respect for their knowledge and dedication to teaching.I consider myself lucky to be able to learn from such experts in their respective fields.

From bothering mom 24/7 to videocalling mom and describing how my day went.

My roommate soon understood this and stopped hanging out with them before it was too late.Now I have a trio: myself, my roommate, and one of the five girls-who faced the same situation as us.Our vibes matched.

Have you ever had a secret crush on anyone?

From my daily arguments with dad to missing him.

I am happy I found them, but the scared half of me always reminds me to be ready for heartbreaks, and I don't expect much.